I had a humorous blog with 3000 visitors daily (that was 18 years ago). I was the guy making everyone laugh in high-school. Intellect and wit was basically useless for me. when I ask what was my issue, just one answered: "you are a great guy, but you are not hot". I asked some of them what I should do, their answers were that I just had to be patient, I had plenty of quality and was a great guy. So if you had an ugly face/body, your fashion and personality wouldn't land you as much hook-ups (you could still have some, but they would be rare)įor the rest, platonic friendships with women were great to enjoy my life but never helped me to get a single date. A good looking and respectful guy would have plenty of options, the same guy but ugly would have none. And getting them is the most difficult thing if you start with a disadvantage.īut honestly, most women I know are honest about ithe fact that the most important parameters in hook-ups are looks and being safe. I agree that personality plays a role, that fashion and grooming as well, and that height isn't always the deal breaker some thinks it is (frame and strength are more important).īut even more important are self confidence and experience.
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